Give your guest list to all your bridesmaids. If you have a lot of friends and family and you weren't able to include everyone in your guest list then you will most likely have people asking around if they were invited. Give your list to your bridesmaids and explain to them the situation you were faced. "Our location only holds 100 people. We are thankful for so many friends but we had to account for our large families." Often people ask your close friends/bridesmaids if they know if they are invited. This helps take the pressure off you. You had a hard time making the cuts, the last thing you want are people calling you upset. You have bridesmaids, let them help out. If you had to cut close friends it will be worth a phone call, email or take them to lunch. If they are true friends, the may be hurt at first, but will understand. -Anonymous
