From One-night Stands to Getting That Second Date

"There’s a big difference between a one-night stand and having a second date that might actually lead to a meaningful relationship.  One night stands by their very nature are exactly what they say: one night.  To get the second date doesn’t have sex on the first date, plain and simple.  Having sex on the first date might send a message that you aren’t taking things seriously and aren’t thinking long term.  Waiting though, and taking the time to get to someone for who they are beyond their physical and sexual capabilities will make it much more likely that you get a second date." Dubbed “Manhattan’s most media-friendly psychotherapist” by the New York Observer, Jonathan Alpert is known for delivering frank yet helpful advice. Journalists love his candor and warmth, and they frequently call upon him to comment on hard news stories, current events, lifestyle and hot-button issues, celebrities, mental health, politicians, and more. Jonathan has appeared on every major news show and is frequently quoted in newspapers, magazines, radio, and the international press. http://jonathanalpert.com Order Jonathan's Book- Be Fearless: Change Your Life in 28 Days