I had a dress that was “in style” that was tight on top but loss on the bottom that I thought was really cute. I wore it to a 13th birthday party for a neighbor when a mom came up to me and asked me if it was my first. I asked her –first what? Baby, of course. I was absolutely mortified and almost left the party from embarrassment. I know she probably felt terrible but if there is anyway the person isn’t pregnant… don’t say it.